When someone passes away, many people, including relatives, co-workers, business associates, childhood friends and casual acquaintances may wish to pay their final respects. The immediate family may not be familiar with these individuals and in their bereavement, they might not remember seeing those they do know. This is one reason funeral books are part of the standard preparations.
Registers of this type mean different things to many people. For friends of the deceased, it is a way to express their support and show respect. To the family, it is a written record of just how deeply the loss was shared with others.
Guest ledgers come in several sizes, styles and formats in order to meet the preferences of a wide range of people. Traditionally, a physical book is set out on a table near the entrance to the venue and individuals sign their names as they arrive. Modern technology has introduced the virtual version which affords the same opportunity to those who wish to pay respects but are unable to make an appearance in person for whatever reasons.
Real registers have many design and style options available. Some are very basic and simple, requesting guests leave nothing more than their name, their address and their association with the deceased. Still, other options provide ample space for attendees to provide the basic information as well as any sentiments, condolences or personal memories they would like to share.
A virtual ledger is one that is hosted through an internet website. These also vary in layout and design with some being simple sign ins and others allowing for the input of personal stories and sentiments. Many sites will give the family the option to order printed copies of all entries in the form of a memory book.
Each type of register can be a form of comfort to the family, which is why it is becoming popular to have both in place. More people are able to express their support. This may be quite healing when going through the grieving process.
